A study from 2013. Australian nurse interviews.
So, I found this article from 2013 - The top five regrets of the Dying.
#1 - "I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
This was the most common regret of all. When people realize that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people had not honored even half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made. Health brings a freedom very few realize until they no longer have it."
Now, today, view this thought through the post-fear-of-covid, work-from-anywhere, lens.
- 45-minute commutes
- empty face-to-face meetings
- irrelevant and ineffective managers
- 2% raises after 'check-box' evaluations...
In her work as a palliative care nurse, Bronnie Ware encountered the dying epiphanies of patients in their final days.
The most common regrets she observed are as follows: